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Who could doubt you, Sir? I recognize the amount of work that goes into this. Not just in putting the site together but in the research, the original methods you’ve tested, everything. I don’t want anything but to be a better faggot and help other faggots be better too. Thank you for all your help, Sir.
Thanks. It has been a little difficult. The first few times I talked to friends I felt nervous and embarrassed. Some of them said I was being a traitor and I was stupid. I cried at first. Then the next day I said my affirmations and felt renewed. Like you said the facts are facts and it’s on our side. The only time I was a traitor was when I was being someone I wasn’t. I remember how I felt when introduce to the site like it was unnatural. It didn’t take long for the truth to become clear and I am happier than ever.
Thank you for sharing again. I missed reading your posts. I understand what you mean about this slide. I think the change feels so natural because it’s something we all know. That helps me really focus.
Thank you for these observations. I felt module 3 was very intense and it makes sense why. The slides you share here are so packed with experience and truth. No wonder it was hard to get past this one and it is worth revisiting. I love listing daily self hate and it does work. A few days ago another faggot here shared one with me and I’ve been using it every morning. I look myself in the mirror and say it and it helps put me in a good place to start up my day. It’s amazing how much better I feel after I say it.
Thank you all for your input and insight. I feel at home on this site. Every module and discussion post and Straight Talk series there is something I learn and helps deepen my dedication. It’s only been a few weeks and my beliefs are changing, my mind is clearer, I feel better every day, I’ve met other people like me. It’s really great I wish this site had more exposure. I wish I could thank the Men who run the site directly for all their hard work.
Hi all. I’m new here. My friend who wrote on this thread (fagg4Alphaworship) brought me in. I’ll admit when we made plans for pride and he said he wasn’t going and showed me the site as his reason, I was grossed out.
I wanted to help him turn away from here and back to normal life so I let him sign me up so I could see what he was doing and how to fix him. Little did I know it would change my life. After a few modules and talking to my friend and another fag here, I started to understand myself better. I AM a FAGGOT!
I want to thank the Sir who runs the site and all the faggots who have been smart enough to join. It’s really important we continue to help bring in more. I’m afraid of admitting to other gay men how I feel I know it’s going to uncomfortable at first.
Thanks for sharing. On the same line I connected with the slide that says When a Straight White Man puts you down for being a fag, it’s for his entertainment. I really appreciate that message and it helps me really solidify my feelings about being bullied. I understand it wasn’t bullying. They had every right to be entertained and I’m thankful to be the reason for their entertainment! They could have picked anyone but they picked me and that’s awesome. Also, it’s a great reminder for me or for all of us when it happens.
Thanks fagg. I appreciate all your help and feedback. Everyone on here is so nice! I see your point about how can it be more fair for these men to get everything they deserve!
Hi Candi it was so nice meeting you last night! I too can’t wait to become a better member of this community of dedicated Fags.
Thank you! I didn’t know these were available. I’ve been listening to the audios trying so hard to hear each one completely. This will be a big help.
I’d like some ideas from you guys who are more advanced. When I finally was able to admit I was a faggot, I went out with a fag friend and we paid the bar tab for a straight man. We didn’t ask him or announce it, it was just a small gesture he didn’t know who we were or why we did it. It was just nice to feel that we helped. I want to have that feeling more often.
I’m still pretty new here and thought this site was messed up when my friend told me about it. I joined to see what he was raving about and help bring him away. I can’t thank him enough for telling me. I understand now that kids who bullied me and men who intimidate me today aren’t bad people. They were helping me!
The only reason it hurt was because I was lying to myself. I’m not just a gay man I’m a faggot.
Thanks fagg. I can see your point here. As a kid when I got bullied I always tried to outsmart the str8 boys by changing time/ways I would walk. Somehow they always knew. I also was pretty smart and they made me do their homework and help them cheat on tests. As a result, several guys I know from high school are lawyers and stuff and very successful while I’m a hairdresser. I always like to think I helped them get where they are but based off what you explain I guess they would of gotten there anyway?
That makes sense about the masculinity part. I’ve never been masculine and I can understand what you mean it kind of ties into the second part too. Straight guys do just have things easier. Respect and advantages and stuff like that. I know when I got bullied as a kid it did make me hate myself. I also had to work harder to get half as far. Straight guys never had that kind of bullying. I remember as a kid even though with the bullying I felt bad about myself I also felt a little relieved because I knew that everyone knew my secret and I didn’t need to hide it. Thanks.
Do you really think it is impossible for a gay man to be masculine? I just wonder about some of these slides. I am keeping an open mind but having a hard time. Today I repeated the first 2 modules again. I did find one that struck me and stuck out. “If you fight hate you will not grow.” I think this is true but not for the reasons of this site. I think of it more like we have to fight the bigots and their hate to keep and further our rights as gays. Can someone help me with why this idea is wrong?
